Annie Adams Reflects On Her Child's Death & Gender Identity

During a spring break family vacation, Annie Adams' 15-year-old became ill, was rushed to the hospital and diagnosed with leukemia. Before the end of the week, Zenzi died in a hospital far from home. Sarah speaks with Annie about the surreal experience of this happening while on vacation, and how she and her husband were tasked with bringing their child's body home. Annie also discusses the significance of Zenzi's gender identity amidst the chaos of loss.

Annie Adams is a mother, teacher, and believer in the inherent beauty of all children and teens. Annie and her husband Marc established the Portland, Oregon chapter of Helping Parents Heal, an organization for parents, grandparents, siblings, and others who have experienced the loss of a loved one who died too young. She and Marc volunteer at The Dougy Center and Camp Erin, a free camp for grieving children. Annie also recommends Compassionate Friends, a support group for those who have lost a child.

Grief Gratitude & Greatness is hosted by Sarah Shaoul and is a production of Recursive Delete Audio/Visual in Portland, Oregon.

This episode was produced & edited by Jack Saturn, with additional production by Sarah. The music was by Samantha Jensen.

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